
Very early on Saturday morning, my grandma, Oma Bosch, passed away. After 94 full and well-lived years, she went home to be with the Lord. And although we will miss her dearly, we will celebrate and remember the incredible lady that she was.
When I think about my memories with Oma, the list is long and joy-filled. Graduations, birthdays, holidays, weddings, births...you name it, Oma was there cheering us on with her smile. What a blessing to have grandparents that are a positive presence in so many of my life's milestones.
There are a few memories and traditions, however, that are my favorite. Memories that, even if I live to be 94 years old, will stay fresh in my mind and cause me to smile. I want to share a few of those with you today.
1) Church & Coffee on Sundays. Every Sunday morning, we would pile in the station wagon and head over to Hillcrest for church. The process was always the same....say hello to Aunt Meena (who sat in the red velvet chairs at the back of the church) and get our weekly ration of Smarties. Next, slide in to the wooden pew next to Oma and Opa and flash our best and most well-behaved smile at Oma. She would open her purse and pass three small packs of Lifesavers down our way. Those red, green, yellow, and orange rings would be enough to keep us quiet through the sermon and the rest of church. After church was Sunday School. When I got old enough, I was able to walk by myself from church to Oma's house. When we got there, as most of you probably know, it was time for coffee. Cheese, crackers, coffee cake, and tuna fish were staples on the weekly menu. On special occasions, a plate of donuts--cut in half--would also be added to the table. I would eat, read the comics, and when it was time to go, ask Oma if we could have just one more piece of candy. (Looking back at it now, I think Oma may be partially responsible for my incredible sweet tooth!) So, we would dig into her dresser drawer for a mento. If the mentos were gone, we would settle for a red throat lozenge, because let's face it, those are as good as candy. On our way out, we would thank Oma. Without fail, she would say "You're welcome, come again." And we did, each and every Sunday for as long as I can remember.
2) Easter. Most families on Easter plan some sort of Easter Egg Hunt for the children. You know, throw a few eggs filled with candy around in the grass so the little ones can fill up their baskets. That's not exactly how we did things. After church, we headed over to Oma and Opa's house for brunch. Apparently, food must connect with memories in your brain because the menus are a significant part of each of my memories! Egg casserole, ham with pineapple rings, asparagus, and croissants ensured that we were properly fueled up for the day's main event. Every single person, no matter their age, received a handled paper bag. Oma, the master of ceremonies, sat in a chair in the middle of the backyard. We would wait on pins and needles for Oma to call out a color. "Yellow," she would say, and we would bolt around that yard frantically trying to find a yellow plastic egg filled with jelly beans, snickers, and hopefully not a peep. We would race back to Oma hoping to avoid being last, because last place earned you a special prize--the Dumb Bunny Ears. Those ears, worn for the entire next round, were a symbol of your poor egg hunting skills. In fact, I have a scar on my shin from tripping on a metal pole while trying to race Todd for an egg! This would continue for 10 - 12 rounds (do the math, that's A LOT of eggs!) until there were a few lonely eggs still hidden somewhere in the yard. So, we would fill up all the cartons to get a count of exactly how many eggs were missing. We would search and search, but inevitably Opa or Uncle Dave would find the eggs while gardening a few weeks later. Usually they were chewed up by the squirrels! We would wrap up the day by dyeing some eggs then head home with our bags full of candy. "Thanks Oma!" "You're welcome, come again." And we did, each and every Easter for as long as I can remember.
3) Christmas Eve. Around 5:00 on the night before Christmas, we would get all dressed up and once again, head over to Oma and Opa's house. If you ever drove by their house around Christmas time, you know that it was hard to miss. The lights were spectacular. Garlands lined the summer house, homemade candles adorned the flower beds. And let's not forget the elves, Frosty, Santa, and carolers placed neatly around the yard. It was truly a winter wonderland. First on the Christmas Eve party schedule? Dinner, of course. Aunt Bev's chicken casserole, little mini-hot dogs, punch, and potato chips with french onion dip will always remind me of Christmas Eve. Next it was time for singing. We all gathered in a circle in the living room and passed out the music books. I think those books might have been as old as Oma! Jane Van Zytveld or my mom would sit down at the piano and lead us all through our favorite Christmas Carols...We Wish-Schuitt a Merry Christmas, I Heard The Bells On Christmas Day (singing all the verses because it tells a story), and Away In A Manger (complete with motions from the child who had learned them for their school program). After a half hour or so of singing, all the kids would start requesting page 17. Jingle Bells. For whatever reason, Santa seemed to know that we were anxiously awaiting his visit and would pop in to say hello. We would sit on his lap, snap a quick picture, and give us each one present as a teaser for the next morning. Santa would say goodbye, we would pass around a massive plate of Christmas cookies, and then it was time to head home. "Thanks Oma." "You're welcome, come again." And we did, each and every year for as long as I can remember.
These traditions are an integral part of my life. They have become an integral part of my husband and children's lives. And, if you got to experience any of these same traditions, I'm sure they are an integral part of your life as well. Now that Oma is gone, these traditions will not quite be the same. But, we can take the joy, love, faith, and generosity we experienced from Oma for so many years and make those the foundation of our new family traditions. And by doing so, we will honor Oma and the amazing life she lived.
As I said at the beginning, we will miss Oma dearly. But today, I will rejoice in the fact that she is in heaven with the Lord. And I can only imagine that when they met face to face, God looked at the life she lived and said "Thanks Oma." And Oma responded with a smile "You're welcome."




